George Zimmerman was arrested for pointing a gun at his girlfriend. When I learned this curious fact on yesterday I had a unique perspective that differed from the other social media commentators. I did not think of Trayvon Martin’s young face. I did not think of the jury who decided to set him free. All I could think of was,
“What woman would want him?”.
I found myself venting on Facebook about the folly many women find themselves in. I honestly believe that every person deserves a second chance or a third chance but really ladies are we just turning a blind eye to reason?
My mother’s voice instantly popped in my head as I read about yet another domestic violence situation involving George Zimmerman, a gun, and a weaker person. Clearly George Zimmerman has anger issues. The world knows that George Zimmerman has anger issues. His now estranged wife revealed to the press that she fears him and don’t know what he is capable of. With all of this information being public knowledge what woman would knowingly put herself in close proximity to such a man?
I want and hope that as we move forward into a new year we take inventory of our past and the past of those we allow into our intimate space.
These are some lessons my mother taught me as it relates to men and relationships:
1. If he did something horrific to another woman he could very well be horrific to you. Proceed with caution! George Zimmerman not only attacked a young unarmed man but he attacked his now estranged ex-wife and her father. Clearly this man does not know how to manage his anger. Proceed with CAUTION!
2. If he makes babies with another woman and don’t support that woman or his children; what makes you think he will care for you and your babies. This really has nothing to do with George Zimmerman but I felt this point should be mentioned. So many women find themselves in precarious situations by not checking out a man’s fabric. What is his fabric made of? This leads to point number three.
3. Take inventory of a man’s character. Does he treat women with respect or disrespect? Does he respond violently or coarsely with you or other women? Proceed with caution with dealing with any man who disrespect other women in your presence.
4. Last but not least follow your first mind. Follow your instincts. If something feels wrong don’t brush it off; RUN!
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